It's been quiet in this corner
for a while mostly because we took a little trip! It's been a
while since we were on an airplane but we managed it a couple weeks
ago when we flew off to Florida. I believe I've spoken of my
wife's aunt who lives in rural Florida up north of Tampa. She
has been diagnosed with dementia and is failing rapidly. Of course
the real person carrying the burden is her husband. He sees it happening every day; he has to visit her not quite every day; he has to make all the decisions.
We went out there last January to visit
them. We got to see him but the nursing home was in the middle of a
COVID crackdown and they had a no-visitors policy. It is a 1 story
building so we could stand outside her window and the nurse moved the
bed so we could see her but that's a hell of a lousy visit! My wife
wanted to visit again now that visitors are allowed. We had
considered driving but decided to give flying a try.
The flights were actually just fine.
We have all our shots and have Global Entry cards so getting to the
aircraft is pretty easy. Of course we do go 2 hours early as they
all seem to request these days even when the flight leaves at 06:00!
Yeah, that means getting up about 03:30 even if you are in the
airport hotel. What the hell, we are old and don't always sleep that
well anyway. Going over we got to stop in Dallas for a bit then on
to Tampa. Then we have a 2 hour drive up to the Crystal River area
where our relatives live.
My wife's uncle is really a great guy
and a pretty damn good host too! The spare bedroom was all set up
for us and there was even a dessert for us! The next day we got to
visit with the aunt but she was sleeping. The nurses said she'd been
awake earlier but she'd crashed. So we wandered around town a bit
and went back to the house. This night we ate at home: for a guy in
his eighties he's a pretty good cook!
In the morning we got to see the wild turkey's who live in the area. Apparently they like the bird food that gets put out for them. Then later on in the day we tried visiting the aunt
again. Again she slept through our entire visit but at least my wife
was able to touch her and talk at her. I left them alone for that
goodbye. She has a feeding tube that is the only thing keeping her
alive. How long they are going to keep her in this condition is the
question. At least she has a DNR and all that fixed up.
We went out to an early dinner that
night. It wasn't a place we'd visited before but it was ok. At
least it is nice to see boats actually on the water. Around here you
see boats but they are just covered in tarps and dust. The drunks in
the bar were a bit of an annoyance as were the squirrels that thought
they deserved some of our food! Hmmm, I've got to remind myself to
pack a stick the next time we visit Florida. Anyway, that was our
last night in the boonies.
The next day we drove down to Tampa through some of our old haunts when we lived in the area. We managed to go out to the beach and have lunch and a beer at the Palm Pavilion.
That night we spent in Tampa out
near the airport. We had something new planned for Friday: meeting
relatives I've known about but have never met! The guy is a nephew
but has always lived places like Ohio or Indiana and you've really
got to have a reason to go to those places! Just kidding! Don't get
all offended. Hell, I've lived in Ohio when I was a kid. Anyway,
now they are living in Tampa so we agreed to meet at a restaurant for
lunch. The place they chose was on the new Tampa Riverwalk. It is a
very nice park that stretches along the river a bit and has touristy
stuff facing the park. We met at Ulele restaurant and really had a
nice couple hours together. The food and drink was very nice and the
people running the restaurant were great.
I met this nephew through '23 and me'
which goes to show how close our family has been. Anyway he's
interested in our ancestors and I've got some things that my father
left when he passed away. So I took along some things that I thought
he would like: an old bible owned by my grandfather; things like
that. So we talked and ate and it was generally a great time. This
guy just recently became a grandfather so we got to see lots of
baby pictures. They are planning on moving again soon so it may be a
while before we get to meet them again.
After that, it was time for a return to
our hotel because, yep, we had another 06:00 flight planned! Well,
that worked out ok; at least the car rental company hasn't been
calling asking about their car so I guess they found it ok. The
flights were good too. This time we got to stop in Phoenix and got
back to Las Vegas in time to make it home for dinner. All in all a
very successful trip and our re-initiation to flying.
Keep on being careful. This COVID crap isn't going anywhere soon.